Wednesday, April 04, 2007
The third category...research first before 'falling' in love. There are 2 kinds of ladies that fall under this category, the calculating kind and the cautious kind.
- The calculating kind usually do researches that includes probing into either the guy's family background or wealth. These are the ladies that want to get married into powerful dynasties, be it polictically or with titles such as Lord/Count/Thakur/etc. Usually, these ladies are already wealthy. What they want are only recognition among the elite circles.
- The cautious kind usually do research into the guy's behaviour. I think most of decent women do this, either conciously or not. Is the guy a husband material, is he responsible, does he likes children? These are among the questions that need to be answered and the research usually involved asking the guy itself questions, meet up with the family, querying the friends. This type of research would enable the lady to make up her mind whether the guy is a keeper, or a loser.
The last category is the one that I really do not understand. These type of ladies, in my mind, really resemble leaches. Sad to say, these are the type of ladies are much abound nowadays. They are young, beautiful and sexy. Usually, high maintenance too. Single guys are usually below their radar, non-existent. However, the moment the guy acquire girlfriend/fiancee/wife, suddenlythe leach starts flirting with the poor guy. Since most of the guys are ruled by their smaller head, disaster happens. Broken marriages and families are casualties of this war.
Sad isn't it? Women destroying other women's life. Some say, 'Padan muka, tuh lah kau tak reti jaga laki'. I would say, 'If the guy easily changes his loyalty, after you get the guy, would you really want to keep him?'
Which category are you?
Remember, what goes around..would always comes back around.
Rimaugirl, you are in the category Research, cautious type. :D
You can bet I am in the category... cautious type. Dah pernah terkena beb... kena la berhati2 lepas tu. Now, Alhamdulillah...we are happily married dan dah ada 2 orang princes.
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The race of man shall perish, but the eyes
Of trilobytes eternal in stone,
And seem to stare about in mild surprise
At changes greater than they have yet known.
- T.A. Conrad
To see a world in a grain of sand,
And a heaven in a wild flower,
Hold infinity in the palm of your hand,
And eternity in an hour.
- William Blake,
excerp from Auguries of Innocence.