Wednesday, December 07, 2005
Sad to hear 'Confession of a broken heart' song by Lindsay Lohan and 'Because of you' song by Kelly Clarkson. Seems that lately too many families have problems/broken. You can hear about it everyday around you, office mate, x-uni friends, neighbours, etc.
Once I heard a lady said that the issue is due to wives nowadays do not know how to take care of their husband, always working. Is it true? A good point to ponder.
In my expericence, it is not true. My father, at one time had 3 wives! The first one is a full time housewife, so is the second. Only the third wife have a career. So, are those two wives 'tak reti jaga laki'? Ever think that might be, just might be that the husbands also have issues that contribute to the marital problems?
It's a fact that my love life is shadowed by my relationship with my father. For me, only 1 guy had ever see past my defences. 'See' is a bit vague, sneaking past my defences would be much more truthful. And, there are many times that I consider breaking the relationship coz I'm afraid that once he knows how much I love him, he would leave. Just like my father.
Just like my father.
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The race of man shall perish, but the eyes
Of trilobytes eternal in stone,
And seem to stare about in mild surprise
At changes greater than they have yet known.
- T.A. Conrad
To see a world in a grain of sand,
And a heaven in a wild flower,
Hold infinity in the palm of your hand,
And eternity in an hour.
- William Blake,
excerp from Auguries of Innocence.